“If you torture the data long enough, it will confess to anything.”
― Ronald Coase

Stop wasting time tracking metrics that don’t help you achieve success.

Every extraneous metric you analyze is a waste of precious time and energy. Not only could your time be better spent, but every additional metric leads to some amount of analysis paralysis. Before you know it, all your motivation is gone.

Don’t let the details drag you down. Identify what’s important and keep your eyes focused on those goals.

Remember, what gets measured gets managed. So measure what truly matters and watch your success sky-rocket.

“Success is the sum of small efforts, repeated day in and day out.”
― Robert J. Collier

I think it’s helpful to see immediate success in everyday progress.

Woke up early. Success.

Did 100 pushups. That’s success.

Didn’t eat that donut. That’s success.

Finished your top three tasks before 10 AM. More success.

Read a book instead of watching TV. Success.

Played catch with your son. Success.

Every moment matters. Train your brain to identify the daily wins that lead to a successful life.

“Just as your car runs more smoothly and requires less energy to go faster and farther when the wheels are in perfect alignment, you perform better when your thoughts, feelings, emotions, goals, and values are in balance.”
― Brian Tracy

You want to be fit, but you don’t exercise.

You want to be smart, but you don’t study.

You want to be wealthy, but you don’t invest.

You want to be holy, but you don’t pray.

This is why you’re not happy. It’s why you feel so lousy all the time. It’s why you feel like a loser.

You need to align your actions with the person you want to become. Get on the path. Start making progress.

“Actions speak louder than meetings.”
― Lee Clow

Level 0: No meetings

Level 1: Interruptions instead of meetings

Level 2: Ad-hoc meetings

Level 3: Scheduled meetings

Level 3: Daily standups

Level 4: Project planning meetings

Level 5: After-action reviews

Level 6: Strategic planning meetings

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Level ∞: Asynchronous communication

“We Have The Tools! We Have The Talent!”
― Winston Zeddemore, Ghostbusters

This would be easier if my computer was faster.

I can’t find the right people.

I need a better microphone.

I’m just not good at this.

I wasn’t trained.

I don’t know what to do.

Excuses.

You have everything you need. You have the ability to do whatever it takes. You can develop the skills. You can learn anything.

But that’s not what’s holding you back.

You’re missing the final ingredient: action.

“It does not matter how slowly you go as long as you do not stop.”
― Confucius

One day, my enemy may win… But not today.

One day, I may fail my family… But not today.

One day, my body may break… But not today.

One day, my mind might falter… But not today.

One day, I might lose control… But not today.

One day, I might lose faith… But not today.

One day, I might give up… But not today.

One day, I may lose hope… But not today.

Today… I am resilient.

Today… I am unbroken.

Today… I am undefeated.

“Any man can make mistakes, but only an idiot persists in his error.”
― Cicero

You will make mistakes. How you respond is a critical choice.

You can choose to avoid responsibility and blame others, circumstances, or things outside your control.

You can take ownership, honestly assess what happened, and figure out what you could do different next time.

Your response to failure is what determines how much you learn, how much you grow, and how far you go.

“All leadership starts with self-leadership.”
― Nick Wagner

Self-leadership is the foundation of good leadership. It requires commitment to continuous improvement. It requires ongoing personal growth and development. It requires taking ownership, and accepting responsibility for outcomes.

A good leader always looks in the mirror first, and sets the standard with his own actions. He doesn’t let his ego get in the way of growth, and he accepts feedback no matter the source. He doesn’t complain, and he learns from his failures.

Anyone who would lead others must first lead himself.

“The time your game is most vulnerable is when you’re ahead. Never let up.”
― Rod Laver, Adidas

When I was a kid, I played basketball with a boy who was taller than every other kid in the league. I’ll call him Aaron. With his obvious advantage, he dominated on the court. Well, at least that’s how the season started.

As the season progressed, the story changed. Other kids improved their game, but Aaron seemed to stagnate. He was being out rebounded by kids much shorter than him. His shots were being blocked by boys who only came up to his chin.

It was easy to see what was happening. Aaron hadn’t been challenged at the beginning of the season. He didn’t need to work hard to win. But over time, the other kids worked hard and developed their skills up to and beyond his level. Aaron was still the tallest guy out there, but that advantage on its own wasn’t enough.

To stay competitive, Aaron needed to work on his skill set and put in a lot more effort. Relying solely on his height was insufficient.

Aaron’s story is a fitting analogy for life. If we play down to lesser competition, we’ll stagnate just like Aaron did on the basketball court. It’s not about our advantages or disadvantages. It’s about putting in the effort necessary for continuous improvement.

We have to challenge ourselves and surround ourselves with people who push us to be better. We need to learn, adapt, and constantly expand our skillset. Upgrade your competition, and you’ll upgrade yourself.

“Sometimes we receive the power to say yes to life. Then peace enters us and makes us whole.”
― Ralph Waldo Emerson

You’re overwhelmed. You’re stressed. You have too much on your plate. There aren’t enough hours in the day.

Obviously, you’re bad at saying no. You take on too much and don’t know how to get it under control. If you could learn to say no, everything would improve.

But what if you started saying yes?

What if you figured out how to say yes to all the good things?

Yes to the projects that genuinely excite you, yes to quality time with family and friends, yes to self-care and relaxation, yes to personal growth and learning. As you become comfortable saying yes to these, you’ll naturally start saying no to the things that don’t serve your best interests, be it an overbearing workload, unnecessary commitments, or simply a lack of time. In the process, you’ll learn to prioritize yourself and your needs.

Shift your mindset, and say “Yes” to all the good things in your life.